If you are like my family and I, you are planning your summer vacation. We are excited this year because we get to spend time with our grandson who is 12. His parents live out of state and we normally only get to see him a few days out of the year. This year my wife was able to convince our daughter to allow our grandson to spend a month with us here in California. My wife is busy planning day trips and weekend excursions to keep him (and us) busy. We are excited but also nervous to be spending so much time with him. To make sure it is an enjoyable experience we need to make sure we have everything in order for both him and us. We have spoken with him on the phone and discussed if he is going to be happy staying with us for so long. We have set up a room for him and asked him to bring a few of his favorite things so he doesn’t get homesick. Once he gets here we plan to discuss the house ground rules. We hope that these things help him, and us, feel more at ease with being away from home.
The other issue we, and other grandparents taking their grandkids, need to consider is having the proper documentation should an emergency occur. You will want to make sure you have a certified copy of their birth certificate. Most children don’t have ID so having a copy of the birth certificate acts as identification. If your grandchild has a passport having that as identification would work as well. You will also want to have a child consent travel letter notarized and signed by the parents. This letter gives you permission to travel with the child and the ability to consent for medical treatments in case of an emergency. There is a great templet you can use at http://www.childtravelconsent.com/. You will also want to have the parents sign a HIPPA waiver which will allow you to get medical information and speak with doctors and medical staff. Make sure you have the parents contact information, including cell and work phones, so you can contact them in case of an emergency. If you are traveling out of the county you will want to do additional research to make sure you have all required documentation to travel with a child that is not your own. You will also want to check with any airlines that you may be traveling on. Each airline has its own rules regarding children and the documents you may require to fly with them. The most important thing however is to remember that this is valuable time. You may not get to spend this much time with your grandchild again. Make sure you make a memorable experience and don’t be afraid to spoil them a little. Remember you get to give them back.
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5/1/2018 0 Comments What is Probate?Probate is the first step in administering the estate of a loved one who died either with a will (testate) or without a will (intestate). If your loved one left a will the court will determine if the will is valid and appoint the person named in the will as the executor of the estate. If your loved one did not leave a will the court will appoint an administrator of the estate and determine who are the heirs of the estate.
In estate planning most people request they stay in their home as long as possible. Seniors often have lived in their homes for decades and find no reason to leave. They are comfortable in their surroundings and reluctant to move. Although the choice that many seniors made in their estate plan is to stay in their home as long as possible it might not always be the best choice for several reasons.
Safety is the major concern for seniors and their families. Assisted living centers provide a communal, safe, comfortable environment for seniors. Many assisted living centers have secured entrances which protect seniors from not only burglars but also unwanted solicitors who can prey on seniors. Just the fact that there are other people around makes communal living safer than being alone in the home. Nutrition is another reason to look at assisted living. Appetites can diminish as we age. Also many individuals don’t like to eat alone. While many assisted living centers do offer kitchenettes where seniors can prepare meals, the draw of communal dining is strong. In the dining area not only do seniors get socialization but are also prepared a variety of healthy foods. Many centers will keep an eye on their residents to see how well they eat and determine if supplements are necessary. Mobility is also another factor that is important. The ability of seniors to get where they want is important. It makes them feel more independent. Many seniors no longer can or choose not to drive due to various reasons. They depend on busy family and friends to take them to where they need to go. This can often make the seniors feel dependent on others. Many centers offer transportation to shopping and community events. Most also arrange for transportation to medical and other appointments. This ability of the senior to arrange their own transportation often gives them a greater feeling of independence. Another great benefit of assisted living is that the senior does not need to worry about home upkeep or repairs. As seniors get older it becomes more difficult and dangerous for them to do home repairs. A simple fix of changing a lightbulb can cause a fall from a ladder resulting in dire consequences. It also opens seniors to be take advantage of by unscrupulous contractors and repair people. With assisted living they or a loved one just need to alert the administrator of the complex and the repairs will be done quickly. Many facilities also offer cleaning services to help the senior live in a clean and healthy environment. Perhaps the most important and valuable asset of living in assisted living is the socialization. Many seniors do not leave their homes because of the difficulty of getting around. Many of their lifelong friends have health problems or have passed away giving them fewer social connections. Social skills can be lost if not used. Many seniors become anxious around others due to the lack of socialization. This can lead to depression and the senior can become a virtual hermit. In assisted living they are surrounded by others of their own age and life experiences. Many seniors who swear that they would hate living in “that facility” find that once they have adjusted they really enjoy the company of others and become active again. This new found sense of community can often do more for the health of the senior than anything else. Not all assisted living centers are the same. It is important to do your homework and find the right facility for your or your loved one. Discussing this option with your loved one can be difficult. It is important to go over all the advantages and know that they are going to have questions and fears. By doing your homework and research you can reassure your loved one that they are making a good choice. You or your loved one may also qualify for benefits that can help them pay for the expense of the assisted living facility. Contact our office for questions on qualifying for assistance. |
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